You Meant Well — But Aren't Getting it Right.
The Without Harm Guide + Daily Practice Bundle helps white women understand their impact, unlearn harmful patterns, and practice change that actually matters.
You’ve been trying.
You care. You read the books, join the groups, share the posts.
You don’t want to be one of those white women — the ones who cause harm and don’t see it.
But still…
You catch yourself overexplaining when you’re corrected.
You freeze when someone names whiteness in the room.
You feel the heat rise in your chest — that mix of guilt, confusion, and fear of getting it wrong.
You want to help — but you also want to be seen as good.
And somewhere in the middle, you start wondering if maybe that’s the problem.
You’re exhausted from walking on eggshells.
You’re afraid of being silent — but even more afraid of saying the wrong thing.
You meant well.
But what if meaning well isn’t the same as doing good?
Is this really where you want to stay?
Without Harm is your invitation to begin again — differently.
It’s not a book about guilt, or a deck about performative allyship. It’s a practice for doing better — with awareness, integrity, and care.
It’s for the white woman who cares deeply but knows caring isn’t enough.
The one ready to slow down, listen longer, and show up without centering herself.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
✔️ Recognize when care becomes control
✔️ Listen without needing to fix, teach, or be affirmed
✔️ Repair harm without folding into guilt or retreat
✔️ Stay in the work when it stops feeling comfortable
And with the Everyday Co-Conspirator Deck, you’ll practice those shifts in real time —
through simple, daily prompts that help you unlearn harmful reflexes and build accountable habits.
Without Harm centers the experiences of Black women and invites white women into a more honest, sustainable, anti-harm practice.
A transformative guide + practice deck designed to make hard conversations real, grounded, and doable.
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This is an olive branch with a mirror attached — not a reward, but a reckoning.
A chance to start again, differently, and without harm.
You can do this work. You just can’t do it the old way.
Why White Women — and Why Now
Because history keeps repeating itself under softer names.
Because care without awareness still causes harm.
Because in every movement for justice, white women’s participation has carried both possibility and peril — and we’re living through that tension again.
Without Harm speaks directly to white women because you sit at the crossroads of care and complicity.
You hold influence that can either perpetuate harm or interrupt it.
This isn’t about guilt — it’s about possibility.
The possibility of showing up differently, listening longer, and learning to use your power as protection instead of proof of goodness.
Now is the time to move beyond awareness into action — to help in ways that heal.
Start where awareness meets action.
Without Harm is your guide to unlearning the harm you were taught to call help — and practicing care that truly heals.
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Without Harm Guide + Daily Practice Bundle
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Unlearning isn’t theory — it’s day-to-day practice.
The Everyday Co-Conspirator Deck turns the insights from Without Harm into small, consistent shifts you can make in real life — not just in your head.
Inside the deck you’ll find 20 daily reminders designed to help you:
✔️ Notice harm before it happens
✔️ Build self-awareness without spiraling into guilt
✔️ Take meaningful action in your actual life
✔️ Stay grounded and accountable when the work feels uncomfortable
With three kinds of cards — Action, Reflection, and Encouragement — this deck helps you move from “meaning well” to doing well.
Pull one. Read it. Live it.
Small steps. Real change. Every day.
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